Singapore's most eligible singles
This is you
Intelligent, successful and sincere. You have it all and now you're looking for someone to have a meaningful relationship with.
As Asia's first and largest lunch dating company, Lunch Actually has access to an exclusive and verified database of Taiwan's most eligible singles.
We don't just match you based on one criteria - we take your preferences, plus your values, goals, and lifestyle to find your most compatible partner.






Who we match
Profiles of Our Members
Age Range
- Male
- 25 - 65+
- Female
- 23 - 45
Education
70%+ Bachelor Degree, Masters and Above
Top Industries
Banking · Engineering · Finance · Education · Medical & Healthcare · Technology · Consulting · Legal
Modern dating
Challenges in modern dating today
Pubs. Clubs. Awkward moments. Dubious profiles on dating apps. Endless swiping. Love scams.
There must be a more elegant and convenient way to meet potential partner in Singapore!
Say NO to
Endless swiping
Swiping through hundreds and hundreds of dating profiles, and either not getting responses after sending out 20 messages or receiving too many messages with the same 'hello..'
Ghosting
Wasting time chatting for days/weeks/months, only to be ghosted!
Cat-and-mouse games
Cat and mouse games, wondering if the person that you're interested in would go on a date with you.
Lack of eligible singles
Complaining to friends about lack of eligible singles out there, as we have the largest database of singles whom we are matching you up to.

The story behind Lunch Actually
Meet Our FoundersViolet Lim & Jamie Lee
Jamie and Violet met when they were both studying in Manchester and fell in love over a lunch date! They are happily married with 2 children.
Violet read Law and earned her Masters in Industrial Relations and Personnel Management. She started her career at Citigroup Singapore before starting Lunch Actually at the age of 24. She was inspired to enter the dating and relationships industry after observing many of her colleagues and her friends were single and not dating as they were “married” to their jobs. Jamie studied Economics (Accounting and Finance) and he was working in Deutsche Bank as an IT Analyst before he embarked on his entrepreneurial journey. Jamie is a strategy board game enthusiast who is passionate about strategy, technology and systems.
Why 18,000 Working Professionals Trust Lunch Actually

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Pioneer Brand
We are the first premium dating agency in Asia with 22 years of proven success record and presence in 6 countries.
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Your One-Stop Dating Solution
We recognize that every single is unique, so our platform and service is personalized based on individual's preference. We are not only a matchmaking agency, we also provide coaching programs and matchmaking services to help our clients increase their success rate.
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Your Privacy is Guaranteed
All your personal information with be kept confidential. Dates are also done in a discreet manner and only your first names are given.
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Suitable for Your Busy Lifestyle
We do all the work for you and your date, from matching, restaurant booking and date reminder. You just have all the fun!
- 05
Strict Verification
We invite every potential member to our office for a chat to verify each person’s identification and also to sense out unsuitable individuals.
- 06
Highly Effective
We have a well-tested and well-proven matching algorithm that has created over 4,500 happy couples with 87% matches satisfaction rate.
How Lunch Actually Works
- 01
Step 1
Meet our experienced Dating Consultant for a friendly chat to learn more about you and your relationship goal.
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Step 2
We will match you based on your profile and preferences and arrange the date for you.
- 03
Step 3
Your match is found! All you have to do is show up and enjoy your date. Let us know your feedback after each date so we can fine-tune your dating criteria.
Top Reviews
What they said about us
It's Like We Were Made for Each Other!
I'm glad that I took the step and signed up with Lunch Actually because I was busy with work and tired of swiping dating apps and meeting random strangers. Thanks to my consultant Fiona for seeing me through this journey. She's always prompt to answer my queries and take my feedback, which made the whole process simple and smooth.
He's Now My Future Husband!
The chemistry is instant! How you explained we could talk for hours in the first meeting alone and we had everything is common? Special thanks for Jessie Gan for taking the extra mile to fully understand me, which lead to finding my life partner.
They Matchmade Us and Now We Are Planning Our Wedding!
Perfectly professional matchmaking by Rachelle from Lunch Actually. Had a throughly enjoyable experience with their team.
You Will be Able to Find The Love of Your Life, Just Like Me!
We met each other on a dinner date. After a few dates, we knew we were made for each other and we have never looked back since! Thank you for providing a pleasant dating experience. It is a professional platform which vet through every members to ensure compatibility. I sincerely encourage all singles who are reading this to give yourself a chance to find true love via Lunch Actually.
If It's Not for LA, We Wouldn't Have Found Such Happiness Together!
Personally I would like thank my consultant Joy Tay for being so professional, pro-active and proficient in spotting matches for me. Because of her astuteness, she went through great lengths to pursue and bring a match whom she thinks is highly suitable for me, and voila, now me and my match are together!
Married My Match From LA, and Our First Baby Boy Is on the Way!
I joined Lunch Actually to expand my social circle, especially as I wanted to meet people outside my industry. Frankly, they can match compatibility but you can't match chemistry. But if you don't go on dates, how do you find chemistry? A BIG thank you to the LA team! Continue to do what you do, and help the people out there!
In the media
A regional matchmaking pioneer.
Lunch Actually has been featured across leading magazines, newspapers, television, online media and radio throughout Asia.
Your next chapter
Ready to meet someone who is ready too?
Request a private, no-obligation conversation with a Lunch Actually dating consultant.








